Phantasy World

I have been contemplating on writing this post.  There are too many things running through my mind and it is not that easy to list it one by one. I have been living in fear since my teens.  The fear mainly come from family issues.  Recently there was a news on the NS guy who committed suicide due to many issues that made him felt so useless.  Everyone has their hard times and issues.  Only those who are undergoing it will understand how hard it is.  When I read that news, I was thinking.... that could be me years ago.  I thought that I was mentally and emotionally strong enough to undertake whatever 'torture' that will come to me.  I was so damn wrong.  For the past week, people have been taking turns in reminding me that my grandma is old and probably... it is soon.   Seeing her being so weak and suffering.... my heart do ache.  She pant each time she talk, eat and walk.  Seeing her able to eat, talk and walk, ...

In the past, I always think that I want to live a life with many events taking place just like the dramas shown on tv.  I used to think that by living such life, then it means that you have lived before. Simple life was never my cup of tea, then.  It feels like a prank being played on me.  When I finally realised the essence of simplicity in life, many things jus had to happen.  平平静静过日子，原来是个多奢侈的愿望。 What I wished for, was to live a life without any disturbance on anything and having to worry for anything.  I know, it is impossible.  From young, all the dramas that took place at home to the dramas between friends to the dramas in the office.  Never was I not involved in any.  After each tribulation, my mindset changed.  从意识到，了解到，明白了，体验到，我和身边的人有一点不一样。那就是，不管发生了什么，我都是一个人面对，一个人痛苦难过，一个人度过。 也就只有这一点是辈子都不会改变的。 When I got out of the office, it feels as though I am finally goin to live a peaceful ever after.  What a wishful dream.  It just some...