What makes you think that you have grown up? Your looks, your thinkings, whether you are still studying or working now. What I have just realised was, other than those factors mentioned, there is another way to tell; Death is always around you. Death of your loved ones, death of your fellow friends/acquaintance, etc. Have you ever so frequently heard of your friends/acquaintance passing away when you are just in Primary school/secondary school? Probably I should count myself lucky that none of this has happened to anyone directly related to me. However it kinda of upset me each and every time when I read those saddening fb status or blog entry. Since Poly times, I have been receiving news that friends of my friends have passed away due to many reasons - accidents or unknown reasons which probably could be hidden health problems. Most of the news did appear in the papers or news spread via FB. I felt as though I feel part of my friends' emotions each ti...